27 September 2023

Urge to splurge: Is it OK to splurge after you meet a financial goal?

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Christy Bieber* says celebrating financial goal success often involves making a purchase, but is this the right way to reward yourself for being responsible with your money?


Photo: Nick Gesell

Splurging is a common reward for meeting a financial goal.

According to a recent survey conducted by Merrill Edge, as many as 56 per cent of Americans reward themselves for achieving financial objectives.

These rewards are often costly purchases.

In fact, of those who reward themselves with treats:

  • 48 per cent buy items such as clothes, shoes or jewellery.
  • 48 per cent take a trip or a vacation.
  • 40 per cent eat out at an expensive restaurant.
  • 24 per cent indulge in beauty services.

There’s nothing wrong with rewarding yourself when you’ve buckled down and been financially responsible.

But if these splurges are too expensive, they can set you back from meeting other financial objectives.

It can also be problematic if you’re rewarding yourself with indulgences too often.

To help you determine if your splurges are a justified response to achieving a financial objective, there are a few key things you should ask yourself:

Can you work the cost of the splurge into your budget?

If you’ve worked hard to get out of credit card debt and the vacation you reward yourself with sends you right back into it, your reward could undo all the gains you’ve made.

But if you can find room in the budget for the splurge without borrowing or reducing your savings rate, it can be reasonable to reward yourself with an indulgence.

Is the reward proportionate to the goal you’ve achieved?

If you reward yourself with a $100 spa day for saving $50, you aren’t helping yourself in the long term.

But spending a small amount on a reward when achieving a big objective — such as splurging on a spa day after maxing out your superannuation contributions — makes more sense.

How often do you splurge on rewards?

It’s good to have several different financial goals.

But you may not want to reward yourself with a big splurge after each one or you could end up making it harder to accomplish your objectives.

Make sure you’re using common sense.

If you binge on big purchases after meeting small goals, you can undo all the good you’ve done — kind of like going out for a huge meal after you’ve lost a kilo or two on your diet.

Look for other ways to reward yourself

If you’re bribing yourself to meet financial goals, you may want to consider other ways to motivate yourself.

Imagining what you’ll do in early retirement, for example, could be a better way to reward yourself for making those super contributions.

The stable financial future you’re setting yourself up for is a far more valuable perk than anything you could buy for yourself today.

The key is to focus on changing your mind set so you don’t have to splurge.

The very act of achieving your goals should be a reward in and of itself.

This is a great way to stay motivated to keep doing the right things with your money.

* Christy Bieber is a personal finance and legal writer.

This article first appeared at www.fool.com/the-ascent

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