27 September 2023

Retiring hurt: How to prevent your post-work dream turning sour

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Rodney Brooks* says there are pitfalls when relocating for retirement, and buying the wrong home can be disastrous, both emotionally and financially.


Many people dream of retiring to warm-weather States and spending leisurely days golfing, fishing or walking along the beach.

But those dreams can easily turn into a big retirement mistake.

As great as it may feel to retire in a bucket-list destination, moving to a new home in an unfamiliar area requires a careful plan.

Take care to avoid these pitfalls when relocating for retirement.

  1. Don’t get stuck in a location just because of its beauty or weather.

Retirement home decisions must take into consideration much more than the area’s scenery.

“While it may seem great to live out retirement in a sunny State, it may not be as glamorous as you think,” says wealth advisor Ben Barzideh.

“We’ve seen people move to a State and buy a retirement home, and they are bored and miserable and want to come back.”

“They sell the home, sometimes at a loss.”

Some people who live in colder climates decide they want to retire somewhere warm without really knowing what it’s like.

Adviser Dan Routh suggests renting for a year in the destination of choice to see if that’s a place you want to live.

Think twice before being lured in by the beauty of a rural setting.

It might be a pretty place in the country, but far away from shopping, your doctor, kids and grandkids, Barzideh says.

““Is it close to airports?”

“In the first decade of retirement, people travel a lot if they are healthy.”

Access to health care and health professionals is another important consideration.

“When you age, you need access to specialists,” Barzideh says.

“Are there specialists within a half-hour, or will you have to drive two hours?”

Determine whether you will have access to the things that are important to you for an enjoyable retirement.

You might not want to move to another State if being near children or grandchildren is a priority.

“Some people may think their dream is to go out in the country and get space,” Routh says.

“Do you really want to retire to a beach house that is two hours away from the airport and family?”

  1. Make sure your home is built for ageing in place.

A large home with lots of stairs may not be a good fit as you get older.

“Make it a place that you will live in for the rest of your life — [extra-wide] doorways for wheelchair access, a walk-in shower,” says financial planner Joe Wirbick.

“I was looking for a home … and the homes with stairs cost significantly lower. Nobody wants stairs.”

If you buy a multilevel home, you may end up selling it again or having to do expensive upgrades when you need more age-friendly features.

“Don’t think we are invincible to our bodies ageing,” says a financial advisor Bryan Bibbo.

“That’s something people underestimate.”

He says they should consider a single-level home or a house that has a master bedroom and bathroom on the main floor.

  1. Don’t tie up all your cash in a house.

Financial planners generally recommend against paying for a retirement home with cash.

Wirbick suggests using enough cash for a large down payment, but taking out a mortgage on the property, if you can.

“With interest rates where they are, I’d rather you keep your cash than dump it all into a home,” Wirbick says.

“If you put your cash in a home, you may not get it back out.”

While many people want to enter retirement with no debt and no mortgage, sinking all of your cash into a new house means you can’t use the money for other purposes.

  1. Consider long-term housing costs.

When you buy a retirement home, you need to determine if you can continue to afford the housing costs throughout retirement.

“You do not want to overburden yourself with a mortgage,” Bibbo says.

“Don’t exhaust your resources.”

If you live into your nineties, you need to make sure you will still be able to afford that monthly payment.

In addition to your mortgage payment, you will probably have other monthly expenses.

Remember to factor in real estate taxes, and if you are moving to a place with a homeowners’ association, there may be maintenance fees.

You should also have an emergency fund for real estate.

“We all know life happens, whether the roof starts leaking or the airconditioning breaks down,” Bibbo says.

“Have a pool of money for unexpected and ongoing maintenance on your home or vehicle.”

That emergency fund should not be in the market, Bibbo says.

It should be in an account that does not fluctuate in value.

Also, be prepared to manage costs as a widow or widower.

When one spouse passes away, you will go from having two pension payments coming in to only one.

If the spouse who keeps up with maintenance passes away first, you might need to hire someone to help around the house.

  1. Don’t forget to factor in taxes.

Before moving to a new location, consider how much you will pay in taxes.

You should look at real estate taxes, sales taxes and how your retirement income will be taxed.

Pay attention to how moving to a new State could change your tax bill.

* Rodney Brooks is a retirement columnist and personal finance writer. He tweets at @Perfiguy and his website is rodneyabrooks.com.

This article first appeared at money.usnews.com.

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