Shannon G. Taylor, Robert Folger, Abhijeet K. Vadera, Matthew D. Griffith and Chaim R. Letwin* ask whether employees abused by bad bosses are likely to become abusers themselves.
Toxic bosses harm employees in countless ways — for instance, by lowering morale, diminishing wellbeing, and increasing work–family conflict.
Estimates suggest abusive supervision costs organisations millions in lost productivity, employee turnover, and litigation each year.
Although prior research has found that leader behaviours can “trickle down” to affect the actions of employees at lower organisational levels, surely not all abused supervisors abuse their own subordinates.
So, when do supervisors perpetuate abuse in organisations, when don’t they, and why?
To begin answering these questions, we turned to existing research from the non-business world.
Psychologist Albert Bandura, for example, developed social cognitive theory to explain how behaviour — including abusive behaviour — is learned from role models.
For modelling to be successful, Bandura argued, an observer must pay attention to the modelled behaviour, remember the behaviour, and be motivated to reproduce it.
In what is now considered a classic study, Bandura and his colleagues supported his theory by modelling aggressive or nonaggressive behaviour to children from the Stanford University nursery.
Kids who watched an adult (the model) throw, kick, and whack with a mallet an inflatable Bobo doll were significantly more likely to do the same than children who watched the adult play quietly with tinker toys.
Despite what the theory suggests, however, other studies show that many individuals do not model observed behaviour.
Developmental psychology research, for example, reveals that adult children of abusive parents can respond in ways that suggest another process — disidentification — motivates their own parenting style.
These parents report wanting to do right by their own kids and resolving not to repeat the pattern of abuse.
These conflicting bodies of research suggest that the processes that interrupt cycles of abuse are not well understood.
So, we turned to research on identity and identification to understand when and why abused supervisors in particular might change course by being less abusive and more ethical leaders.
We tested our idea across several studies.
In one experiment, we asked 288 online participants to play the role of a supervisor at a café.
They were told the café had a program that awarded employee suggestions and that they had given their manager an idea to improve the café’s efficiency.
For some participants, the manager became angry and belittled their idea in front of other supervisors.
For others, the manager simply passed their idea along to upper management.
We also manipulated the extent to which participants disidentified with their manager — for example, whether they were proud to be nothing like their manager, and whether they psychologically distanced themselves from their manager.
We then gave participants an opportunity to display their leadership style: In the scenario, one of their subordinates sent them an email with a suggestion to improve the café.
The employee had created an advertisement to be used in a Facebook campaign, but it was littered with typos and grammatical mistakes.
Would the participant — acting as supervisor — appreciate the employee’s good intentions or lambaste the poor execution?
After coding participants’ responses, we found that when they disidentified with their manager, those who experienced abuse demonstrated more ethical leadership behaviours than those who weren’t mistreated.
In other words, being abused by a fictional manager and seeing yourself as different from him or her made participants more ethical than participants who weren’t mistreated by a manager.
To determine whether our findings applied to real work settings, we also surveyed 500 employees and their leaders working in various organisations and industries in India.
We found that, overall, abusive behaviour from the manager resulted in a 12 per cent increase in a supervisor’s disidentification from that person.
But the strongest tendencies to disidentify occurred among those supervisors who relied on their morals and integrity.
Among these people, abusive manager behaviour resulted in a 14 per cent increase in disidentification, slightly higher than the total group.
Importantly, when supervisors were able to disidentify, this psychological distancing led to an 8 per cent increase in ethical behaviours and a 6 per cent decrease in abusive behaviours toward the supervisors’ team members.
In contrast, when supervisors relied less on their moral identity, abuse from their managers did not result in any significant disidentification.
These results support the idea that abused supervisors engage in more ethical and less abusive behaviour with their own subordinates because they disidentify with their abusive managers, and that this is more likely to occur when supervisors possess a strong moral identity.
So, what should employees and leaders take away from our research?
Though we certainly don’t recommend abusive treatment as a way to inspire ethical behaviour, our study highlights one silver lining to come from the dark cloud cast by abusive supervision.
That is, individuals might be able to inoculate themselves against the abuses of their supervisor through disidentification, which can lead to more ethical and less abusive behaviour.
This suggests the cycle of abuse isn’t inevitable in organisations, just as developmental psychology research shows that abusive parenting does not always lead the next generation of parents to become offenders.
But if efforts to short-circuit the modelling of bad behaviours are to be successful, organisations should select supervisors who have strong moral identities, or work to strengthen the moral identities of current managers.
One way organisations might do this is by “undoing” the identities of supervisors who perpetuate abuse.
Organisations can also increase ethical behaviour by reminding people of organisational or professional standards — for example, by displaying codes of ethics or conduct throughout the office.
Regardless, leaders who experience abuse from their manager should know this: You are not your boss, and his or her leadership style doesn’t have to define yours.
If nothing else, you can view your experience as an opportunity to learn how not to lead a team.
With that attitude, having a bad boss could make you a great one.
* Shannon G. Taylor is an Associate Professor and PhD Program Coordinator at the University of Central Florida. Robert Folger is the Distinguished Alumni Endowed Professor in Business Ethics at the University of Central Florida. Abhijeet K. Vadera is an Assistant Professor of Organisational Behaviour and Human Resources at Singapore Management University. Matthew D. Griffith is an Assistant Professor of Management at the University of Texas. Chaim R. Letwin is an Assistant Professor of Management at Suffolk University.
This article first appeared at hbr.org.