Chuck Finder* says that using false anger as a tactic in negotiations generally leaves both parties feeling guilty, distrusted, and needing to make amends afterward.
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Anger — the faux, feigned kind — has been a tool in negotiations for generations.
The idea is that pretending to be angry can coerce the counterpart into conceding to your terms.
Those thinking about using such a tool, though, need to realise the real costs and risks involved.
A new paper in the Journal of Behavioural Decision Making reports findings from five different studies of subjects in a negotiation agreement.
In short: “You’re likely going to pay a real price for the anger you express,” says senior author Bill Bottom, Professor of Organisational Behaviour at Washington University in St Louis.
Bottom, who studies social and psychological aspects of negotiation, noticed how many previous studies and the business media reporting on this work have focused on “overgeneralising a very narrow set of findings”.
Similar accounts published in top-notch media outlets baldly made statements akin to “it pays to be angry.”
Not quite, Bottom says.
“When you convince somebody to act like this, whether it’s with their boss or trying to buy a car or trying to sell a car, we’re doing a disservice if we’re making such grandiose claims,” Bottom says.
Nixon’s ‘madman theory’
His interest in studying this tactic goes way back to a recollection from a member of late US President Richard Nixon’s inner circle, H.R. Haldeman.
Nixon boasted to Haldeman that he would end the Vietnam War by using his “Madman Theory” — if the then Soviet Union’s Leonid Brezhnev and North Vietnam’s Ho Chi Minh believed the man with his finger on the nuclear button was capable of an emotional explosion, they would quickly concede to American terms.
Some pundits have suggested that US President, Donald Trump, a Nixon fan, mimics the theory in international relations.
“There actually isn’t much evidence that this is a successful stratagem,” Bottom says.
“It certainly didn’t work for Nixon despite American military power.”
Fake anger turns real
The anger strategy is where their research comes into play.
Bottom used five different study approaches testing feigned anger in collaboration with lead author Rachel Campagna of the University of New Hampshire and co-author Alexandra Mislin of American University.
In that study, they paid some negotiators a bonus to express anger during their negotiations.
They found that the anger that participants had initially faked eventually turned into genuine feelings of anger because of the way their counterparts reacted to them.
When it came time to implement the deal, these counterparts more often shirked or reneged outright.
Guilty feelings
A few of the participants who feigned anger admitted to guilty feelings afterward, leading the researchers to design these new studies to examine how often these guilty feelings really emerge.
The five new studies had more than 600 participants.
In one study, Campagna and Mislin persuaded participants to come back the next day to implement the terms of the deal they had negotiated the previous day.
While anger had dissipated by the next day, feelings of guilt over the way these people had treated their counterpart during the negotiation had frequently replaced it.
These feelings and the trust issues led the participants to find ways to atone for their actions when implementing the agreement.
Given discretion over how to split up a new pool of money, negotiators who had expressed anger the previous day awarded nearly 20 per cent more of their entire $50 allotment, or $9.92 more on average, to the anger-recipient counterpart ($27.70) than to the unaffected counterpart ($17.78).
In another of the studies, examining the lingering after-effects, the person feigning anger later awarded 16.6 per cent more of his or her $50 allotment to a negotiation counterpart ($30.41) than did people who acted as happy negotiators ($22.11) or others who tried to remain neutral in talks ($21.13).
The findings convinced the researchers that using anger as a negotiating tactic is a lot more likely to increase guilt and distrust than it is to work in coercing concessions from the counterpart.
They learned that guilt in particular triggered post-negotiation compensations, atonement and efforts at repairing the damage.
“Implementing the agreement is key in negotiations,” Bottom says.
“If you’ve behaved this way with anger, you’ve destroyed a lot of trust.”
“On your end, you realise this isn’t good for the long run.”
“So, if you feel guilt, you may try to correct the damage.”
“What we found is, negotiators are willing to compensate the people on the receiving end and wind up paying more than the negotiators who never expressed anger at all,” Bottom says.
Fake feelings
Anger introduced into the negotiation process as a mechanism sometimes ended in the other party reneging on the contract or shirking agreed-upon responsibilities, as often as 30 per cent of the time, Bottom says.
But the researchers emphasise: This involves anger used as a tactic, not emotions roiled by hard-fought negotiations.
“When genuine anger emerges organically, it’s a very different process and has very different implications,” Bottom says.
This study provides context that inorganic anger comes with later costs.
“We don’t say: stop being angry,” Bottom says.
“What we are saying is: It’s not a useful tool to pull out as a means to coerce somebody to do something they weren’t going to do otherwise.”
* Chuck Finder is a communications and media professional. He tweets at @cfinder.
This article first appeared at www.futurity.org.
